There is something I learned from being a consultant that no matter how qualified or not that you may be for a position, even if you have the said degree and have sparkling reviews from past employers and great references, there is one thing you’re missing.
Personality. If you’re personality doesn’t mesh well with the person who is interviewing you, you won’t get a second chance or get the boot after you’re done. The sad state of the interviews now is that they’re conducting emotional I.Q. tests on you as soon as you’re in the lobby filling out forms and talking with the receptionist, when you finally get in to the interviewer, they up the ante and really test you. When you leave the offices, they actually judge you on what you’re driving, how clean it is, etc.
All of this figures into the “hiring practice” of said companies even though they will never tell you this.
While they listen to what you say, what they’re really doing is watching your body movements, gesturing and your eyes. There are some interviewers that use the eye movement as a prediction if someone is telling the truth or not during an interview. However, there are three types of thought processes that can give false positives with the system they’re using.
They’ve only been taught about the symmetrical thought process, where both the right and left hemispheres of the brain have specific functions and the eye movements will have specific directions when you’re remembering an actual memory versus making something going up as you go along.
However, someone that has asymmetrical thought process will be just the opposite in eye movement that the symmetrical thought process has. These people are naturally very creative and make great programmers because they can see the whole picture and break it down into little parts they can code up for. This gives interviewers false positives, this might be what is getting you the boot.
The third is a rare thought process and is quite a bit unnerving to the interviewer. Where your eyes are transfixed in one spot and don’t move at all no matter what you’re thinking of. This is the “instant boot or “no” list”. These people are a combination of the practical symmetrical thinkers and the asymmetric thinkers that are great with abstract and theoretical stuff. This thought process is known as isommetrical. The look that this people have is what people call the “Silence of the Lab / Hannibal Lecter look”. People associate this look with psychopaths and sociopaths which is actually an incorrect assumption and belief. The reason why I say this, there is no specific facial feature or look that can tell you if a person is a psychopath or sociopath.
What I am really driving at, you can have the best qualifications but if you spook the interviewer in any way, it’s over. Here’s the thing, if they decide to pull you in for an interview. Many people in H.R. have already pulled a credit report on you (yes, they do this). They do a background check on you before they bring you in. So, if they make a strange off color comment about you. This is a hint. The best thing you can do is get a deep background check done on yourself for your own records. What they find might surprise you and it could inaccurate as well. That is something to look into to have fixed, if there is an error found.
Another thing, since identity theft and fraud has been running rampant since the year 2000 in the USA, it would be a good idea to see if other people are trying to use your social security number, your good name and your address or if someone committed a crime in your good name.
The reason why I know to check this is that I’m a victim of identity theft due to no fault of my own. Anthem, Inc., the second largest insurance provider in the USA failed to protect my private information as well as over 10 million other people with the exact same problem as me.
So, do get a background search done in your name and do the other stuff to make sure that your information and data isn’t being used by someone else and doing bad things with it. Rule out all the strange possibilities first, then see if it’s a personality problem that is tripping you up.
Here is the other thing I’ve noticed. Interviewers expect you to be nervous in an interview. When you come prepared and aren’t nervous, that makes them uneasy and nervous. You’ve inadvertently changed the power differential within the interview simply by doing this. This is something else that can be seen as an “untenable situation” in an interview.
I’m no longer nervous in interviews because I’ve gone through so many myself and gotten the very same garbage responses you have. When the interviewer will say something like, “You don’t see in the slight be nervous. Are you so sure of abilities and how you can fit into our corporate / company environment”. My response is different depending on how it’s said and question is asked.
Tell them why in a calm, cool and collected voice why you believe so. Then pause. Tell them that you’ve gone through many interviews and you’ve gotten used to the process, whereas it no longer makes you nervous.", it’s best to be completely honest with an interviewer. When you get into this situation, you now have a 50% chance of a yes or no in going forward. That 50% is up to the interviewer only, nothing you can say after this will change that perception. At least it’s not a 100% no go / “the boot” situation.
Pay close attention to the interviewers stance and posture. Is he or she relaxed when you talk to them are they rigid and stiff, see how it changes (if any) when you say something. That’s a clue as to how someone really feels about you and what you’re saying. Remember they’re testing and analyzing you, you should analyze, too.
Rigid and stiff means they’re uncomfortable; maybe they hate to interview people. Perhaps they have to use company spiel and don’t believe it or in it, perhaps their stressed about life in general or something else is going on. Just remember, they’re human, too. That they do a lot of research and interviewing all day. Perhaps they’re assuming you’re like all the rest he/she has interviewed. This is your chance to take reins, just don’t go overboard with it.