“But I’m pretty sure you can write about them”
Surely, but playing devil’s advocate a bit: there’s a grey area of fair-use where quoting someone is risky, depending on the context. Just because I post in a public forum doesn’t mean I give up my inherent copyright to my content, unless I expressly agree to such by my posting.
However you certainly should be able to discuss what happened in a general “newsworthy” sense without any sort of moral outrage.
“The internet part of it is just a sub-part and does not need to be discussed on it’s own”
Well I think the Internet so dramatically increases the boundaries and brings to the fore a lot of issues that are minimal or hidden in normal conversation. For starters, the Internet has a long memory.
What is more ethical: describing an online argument, with a pointer to the argument in its original context (e.g. the Twitter stream that contained it in this case), or quoting the argument as an effective, but ethically ambiguous, illustration?
I honestly don’t know on which side my personal opinion would fall, which is why I find the discussion interesting, and why I think the Internet (or more correctly, digital communication in general) has an important part to play.
By quoting someone, you add to the spread of information. Should either or both parties wish to retract their comments, it is harder to do so if people start taking copies of their conversations and replicating them. The Internet enables the spread of such gossip to a truly large range. One can damage one’s reputation on a global, not just local, scale.
Perhaps it behooves people to take the advice of Thumper’s mom when talking in any online medium, or be prepared to have your words, pictures, or voice replicated in the strangest places. The genie’s likely out of the bottle by that point, no mater the ethics or even legalities involved.
Makes me wonder if people would feel more or less comfortable quoting someone’s conversation vs copying their music.